Do you care about what people think of you?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Sk8er, Feb 9, 2004.

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Do you really care about what people think of you?

  1. Yes, if they hated me i would die :(

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  2. yes, but not that much

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  3. Not really, unless they really hate me :(

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  4. I dont' care if they say i look like a waffle iron that's just ironed it's last waffle :confused:

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  1. d3fy_one

    d3fy_one New Member

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    you cant enjoy life that way...always trying to make sure everyone thinks well of you...you just gotta do what you wanna do and what you cop for it, who cares?!
  2. rknrne

    rknrne Active Member

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    words of wisdom

    If you are holding on to something
    that doesn't belong to you
    and was never intended for your life,
    then you need to ..LET IT GO!

    If you are holding on to past hurts and pains .
    LET IT GO!

    If someone can't treat you right,
    love you back, and see your worth...LET IT GO!

    If someone has angered you .. LET IT GO!

    If you are holding on to some thoughts
    of evil and revenge .. LET IT GO!

    If you are involved in a wrong
    relationship or addiction ... LET IT GO!

    If you are holding on to a job
    that no longer meets your needs or talents ...LET IT GO!

    If you have a bad attitude...LET IT GO!

    If you keep judging others
    to make yourself feel better... LET IT GO!
  3. MDniteStryKR

    MDniteStryKR I'll come back to you when I'm dead! Staff Member Super Mod

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    Wow nice one rkrne! sounds so poetic..and little philosophical

    but he's right..u'll never believe how relieved and free u feel after u've let go..sometimes it's better to sit back and go with the flow instead of cracking your head over every little thing
  4. G-man

    G-man Prodigal Philanthropist

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    VERY nice RkeRne and very true words! :thumbsup:
  5. Betty_Boop

    Betty_Boop New Member

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  6. MDniteStryKR

    MDniteStryKR I'll come back to you when I'm dead! Staff Member Super Mod

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    well that's the case if u're the only soul left on earth..but u have to remember we dont live alone, everything we do involve other people be it friends, family or colleagues..so what i'm saying is dont shut off everything other people think because they will only end up disliking you..on the contrary consider seriously what they think and see u can improve yourself..if it means totally changing urself then dont bother..i believe nobody is perfect but we should try to perfect ourselves as long as we walk on this earth..and perfect here is in the context of our personal definition and not others'
  7. Artistdude88

    Artistdude88 The Insomniac Artist

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    I'm a mix between caring and not caring, Lol. Gotta make good first impressions sometimes.
  8. MDniteStryKR

    MDniteStryKR I'll come back to you when I'm dead! Staff Member Super Mod

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    oh yeah..first impressions are very important..i find myself wanting to know more about people i find appealing in my first impression of them..people are usually remembered by the first impression they make..and it's especially important in job interviews or making important contacts
  9. xCoRnfLaKeSx

    xCoRnfLaKeSx [crazy.ass.muppet] <img src="images/smilies/new/ic

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    *tut tut billy*
    XX
  10. KJB The Man

    KJB The Man New Member

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    Me personally, I generally don't care. Much at all.

    With the way I am, I can't care. Not if I want to be who I am. Simply put, I'm generally strange when compared to "normal" people. My interests are a bit different than the expected as well. For me to care what people think of me and my ways means that I'd be ashamed of the things I like, and I'm not going to be ashamed of my interests for anyone. You're supposed to enjoy your interests and the things you represent, not feel bad about them because of the way some others view those things...
  11. Ronny

    Ronny Midi Mad Super Mod! Staff Member Super Mod

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    A very good mentor once told me, "You only have one chance to make a first impression!"

    No matter what anyone here says it's important be be liked.

    Without "likability," other talents you have (no matter how great they are) may be largely wasted or ignored because if people don't like you they will have a built-in hostility towards you. You may never get a chance to use them in a way that would do the greatest good, for yourself or for others.

    My tuppence worth! :)
  12. MDniteStryKR

    MDniteStryKR I'll come back to you when I'm dead! Staff Member Super Mod

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    i totally agree! :thumbsup:

    being liked by others also means lots of friends! which comes in handy when in need of help or guidance..that, I speak from experience..having friends with different skills and interests really comes in handy in presentations and assignments..

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