Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by BluesOtherWoman, Nov 12, 2004.
What have you done to get a little action?
If your reason isn't listed post it.
I'm too young to get 'action'
awww.... its okay Ennaleigh... I'm too young to lie !
and what is THAT supposed to mean??? : D
:laugh:... Ummm.... :laugh:... Ummm... !!
...that neither of us can honestly answer the poll I guess!
I wonder if the other woman would mind if I added "your appearance" to the list?
None of the above. I don't need to lie. I'm just me...
Go ahead, Jeanie. Chances are she will be grateful for the addition... And maybe you should add not just "your appearance" but "all of the above" as well... :laugh:
Some people lie so much that they start believing their own lies, I guess...
Good call Luiza....
Maybe a "none of the above" for good measure... and since the lass hasn't been back to object...
EDIT: Looks better now
Good thinking, Jeanie! :thumbsup:
In my haste I forgot to mention how utterly sad this statement made me in its truth... I know that I, and I suspect you too, Luiza, can easily love* a person for their mind and ideas... regardless of station in life or any of those other technicalities....
And the reality is? I know that it is not as easy to feel that same love when untruths (like those listed above) are exposed... I find that that depth of feeling is replaced, unfortunately, with sadness and pity. Well... and sometimes a little..... :evil:
*Meant in both the friendship and romantic senses
My friend did that once (lied so much she believed her own lies). She lied about her age, and then when she went to go see some movie, she had to show ID, and she forgot she was a year younger then the requirement. She couldn't get in the movie without someone else buying her ticket. It was quite funny.
You're right... I'm just like you, sis... I tend to believe what I'm told and I get attached to people very easily...
I can understand and accept a lot of things.... except lies.
I don't mind playing romantic games and some fantasy but I do not approve of playing with another person's feelings. Even though we are physically separated disappointments hurt all the same... :sad:
I've never been particularly aware of lying to get action....apart from perhaps the occasional tiny white lie...you know the type...'I don't normally do this sort of thing'... Perhaps I am always more concerned with what they would think of me afterwards rather than what I had to do to get my own way in the first place.
I have a dear friend who went through a phase of that... which culminated in "the answering machine" debacle... she changed the message on our shared ( 5 of us in college shared the previous message) answering machine and denied it... even thought her voice was the evidence?? ... I don't entirely understand what motivates that in people....
I very much feel what you mean by "easily attached" :sad:.... Why distrust someone who has no reason to lie to you? I asked someone once if all of us "smart women" are so :dumb" in that respect......
But on the other side of things.... I think I've met some truly beautiful people who really are content to be themselves for better or for worse....
Yourself being my favorite and shining example :kiss:
:laugh:!!! I may have to edit the poll yet again! That's another classic!!!!
And y'know what R Dingle? I think you're our kinda people
I'm glad you feel that way about me... Your opinion is VERY important to me because, see, that's exactly how I feel about you, sis... :cuddle: :kiss:
Oh, it's so nice when people get along!
:laugh:..... and this meeting of the mutual admiration society has come to order!
*in joining the meeting, says "Hi!" and blows kisses to the two nicest, loveliest, and most erudite ladies he knows online*
*peeks in and hears the magical word "kisses"* Hey, do I get one of those too?
(Of course, silly goose - of who else would I be speaking? They were aimed squarely at you and Jeanie....)
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